The day that Taylor Hawkins passed, I saw a post on Tumblr that didn’t explicitly say what happened and having seen my fair share of fake information on the internet, I thought it might just be a sick joke. With my heart rapidly sinking into my stomach, I opened Instagram and saw the Foo Fighters post. It wasn’t a sick joke, there hadn’t been a mistake, he was really gone. I started crying, really crying, stopping and then starting again seeing all of the posts from people online and the lives he touched. So much of what I felt was shock, because Foo Fighters are one of those bands I expected to be around forever. They’ve been around so long and have never lost their love and excitement of music, least of all Dave Grohl and Taylor Hawkins. They always seemed like the kind of band that would play until they couldn’t anymore, still sell out stadiums well into their 70’s. On a more selfish note, I expected to see them in concert many more times, because that’s what was supposed to happen. They were supposed to be around for a lot longer. Taylor was supposed to be around a lot longer than 50. He was supposed to keep banging the shit out of his drums in a tank top and funky pants. He was supposed to keep gushing about Queen and doing the Freddie Mercury call-and-response with the audience every night. He was supposed to keep being a beam of energy, positivity, and kindness.
Taylor didn’t sing lead vocals on many Foo Fighters songs, but he had a great voice. There’s a song called “Cold Day in the Sun” from In Your Honor (2005) that Taylor sang that always sticks in my head because of the lyrics. I felt a connection to him because when I hear the song I feel like he must have seen the inside of my mind. I would encourage you to go listen to the song and look at all the lyrics, but I’ll put the ones that mean so much to me here:
You get so lost in your head like no one else
It’s your cold day in the sun
it looks like your bleeding heart
has already won
Taylor’s death hit me hard because Foo Fighters are one of my favorite bands and hold a very special place in my heart for being tied to and getting me through one of the worst times in my life. I’m only 21 but I feel pretty confident with that statement because I highly doubt and very much hope I am never again hit by a car. In 2017, on my mom’s birthday and the day Concrete and Gold, Foo Fighters’ ninth album was released, I was hit by a car on my way to school. I had already heard the album a few times and was halfway through the first song, “T-Shirt” when I was hit. I couldn’t walk for about five weeks and I made jokes about matching Dave, who broke his leg falling off a stage in 2015. When I was able to walk again (with crutches), I cracked myself up by playing “Walk” on the drive from my physical therapy appointment to school. In November of that year, when I could walk again, I saw them perform in Sioux Falls. Basically what I’m saying is they were a part of a traumatic event in my life, from beginning to end. I’ll forever be grateful that they made a pretty objectively shitty thing in my life a bit better. I’ll never forget that show or watching Taylor play, especially during “Sunday Rain” when he sang and played his heart out on a raised platform. I was completely entranced and in awe of his abilities.
In general, Foo Fighters bring such joy and silliness to their music (just watch some of their music videos). Their true love for music is so energizing and beautiful to see. Taylor had such a genuine love of music that was always clear when he performed and when he talked about music. Though the Foos have some beautiful sad songs, there is true happiness to the band as a whole that reminds me art can be fun and light, it doesn’t all have to be heavy. Their music reminds me what good feelings life can bring, that the fast beating in my chest wasn’t intended for constant anxiety. Yes this post is for Taylor, but it’s also for the whole band. My thoughts are with them and Taylor’s family and friends.
Here are some moments that highlight what a talent and light Taylor Hawkins was in this world:
Thank you for all the wonderful music Taylor ❤️🦅